Escape the Algorithm, Build Real Connections on Social Media

Escape the Algorithm, Build Real Connections on Social Media

Let's be honest, social media can feel a bit… robotic sometimes, right? All those algorithms and AI-powered posts can make it seem like we're just numbers in a big computer game. But guess what? There's a better way — a way that's all about making real connections.

I'm sure many of you have experienced this: scrolling through endless perfectly filtered photos and polished captions until it feels fake, don't you think? What we truly crave is something genuine, something real. It's like catching up with a friend, not listening to a sales pitch. That's the secret sauce to awesome social media: building real relationships.

So, how do we do this? Let's start by just being ourselves! Share your story, what you love, and even the challenges you face. Don't try to be someone you're not. People connect with authenticity. Think of it as hanging out with your best mates — you want to be yourself, right? Same goes for your brand!

Listening is key! Social media isn't just about broadcasting your message. It's about listening to what others have to say. Really listening. Read the comments, answer messages and join the conversation. Show people you genuinely care about their thoughts. Enjoy the chat — but you should listen as much as you talk, maybe even more.

And finally, let's go beyond the likes! Those little hearts are nice, but they're not the whole story. You should focus on sparking real conversations. Ask questions, run polls, and get people sharing their stories. Create a welcoming space where everyone feels comfortable chatting. Think of it like building a cosy lounge online! Well, here are some brands that I feel have mastered the art of real connection:

  • Nike: Nike isn't just selling shoes; they're selling a mindset of empowerment. Their campaigns often feature athletes of all levels overcoming challenges, inspiring people to "just do it." They foster community through apps like Nike Run Club, connecting runners worldwide and offering personalised coaching. Nike also actively engages in social causes, strengthening their connection with customers who share those values.
  • LEGO: LEGO is more than just toys; it's a tool for creativity and learning. They engage with their community through online forums, design challenges, and LEGO conventions. They encourage fans to share creations and provide resources for educators, tapping into the nostalgia and creativity their products inspire, creating a strong bond across generations.
  • Starbucks: From the 1970s, Starbucks has built a loyal following by focusing on customer experience. Their rewards programme offers personalised perks, and baristas are greatly encouraged to connect with customers. Starbucks also cultivates a "third place" environment— a comfortable space where people can relax, work, or socialise, fostering a sense of community.

Escaping the algorithm doesn't mean abandoning it. They're still part of the game. But they shouldn't be the only game. The real magic happens when we connect heart to heart. When we're real, when we listen, and when we create a welcoming community, that's when social media becomes truly special. That's when we can connect, have fun, and build something amazing together! So, let’s make haste while the sun shines and start connecting with your customers now!

Amran Abdul Majid